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The Road to Healthy Boundaries


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The Road to Healthy Boundaries

Relaxing because you have Healthy Boundaries

Relaxing because you have Healthy Boundaries

Let me start with a self revelation. Exactly a decade back, there was a girl who I started to like and get drawn to. I started to show my intentions and her first question exploded like a nuclear bomb on the Pacific ocean, creating tremors in my life and shook the very foundations of my bones and my life (Si Jesuuus di ba?) I said I wanted to be more than friends with you. She asked me “What did you hear from God?” Boom! Continue reading

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Vision Feb 07 2018


Father is holding his Son

Father is holding his Son

Father is holding his Son
Father is holding his Son

Then He transported me into the heavenly realms. I filled my heart with worship and gave it to Him. He said “You don’t have to”.

I said “I want to.”

He answered “You don’t have to.”

I replied “I want to worship you Lord.”

The He said “You don’t have to perform.”

Then he showed me my dad. I am the one who placed him in your life.” Immediately I saw different situations where I resented my dad. Then he spoke “He loved you only the best way he knows how. He is broken too.”

“He wants to give you his best and loved you the only way he can.”

“You are missing me Ian. Read my word? ‘For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness.’ ”

“When you look to other people you will be disappointed Ian. As good as they are, I created them imperfect. And you feel I’m failing you. They are only a . . . to finally point to me.

And I saw so much love in His eyes I wonder why I haven’t seen that before. Then He took two hands and knelt down. (I was brought back to become like a little child)

Father and Son

Father and Son

“Ian, listen to me.” He said.

“Listen to me. I am your Father. Eyes on me, Ian.” He hold both my shoulders with both hands and looked straight to my eyes. Again He said “Set your eyes on me. I will never fail you. My love for you will never fail.”.


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Evaluation of Physical Changes of 5 Day Fasting


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Evaluation of Physical Changes of 5 Day Fasting

This is not a scientific journal, it is a personal blog.

It has been a tradition in our church to start the year seeking God (I’m apologizing to my secular readers) The action we accomplish this is through corporate prayer and fasting. For those expecting a spiritual article I would like to state that this will not be one. Instead I will discuss how actions and expectations affect our results. Continue reading


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Fruits of Fasting 2018 Part 1


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Fruits of Fasting 2018 Part 1

I had started this fast full of doubt and so much unsure. In my world, I feel like I’m aging and not making progress the way I want to. For those friends who have subscribed to my blog I want to thank you for being with me all this time in my journey. I wish I could personally take the time to hug you and hold your hand and tell you thank you for supporting me through journey.

Tropical Fruits of Fasting

Tropical Fruits of Fasting

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10 Things I learned from Drei: What a Future Dad Wants to Know


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10 Things I learned from Drei: What a Future Dad Wants to Know

Would you believe that in high school, I only wanted to marry a girl but never want to have children?

Yes.

Younger Carefree Me

Younger Carefree Me – cant find any hilarious me pic. Sorry Ghe, haha!

I dread having to wash soiled laundry, wake at every hour in the morning, keep all 2 hands occupied (not being able to defend myself for any ninja or terrorist attack) and eat half-consumed food – a simple glimpse of a sanitized, single and carefree me. But as I grew older, I matured and learned to see differently.

I yearn to be a dad.

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Live Die Repeat: What to do when you’re Stuck


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Live Die Repeat: Courage to Move Forward

 

I was looking to re-watch the films that made an impression on me this year. I could remember that “Edge of Tomorrow” was one of them. The films stars Tom Cruise and the beautiful Emily Blunt. The story is about an alien invasion of earth. Continue reading


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2018: Courage to Dare, a Self Prophecy


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2018: Courage to Dare, a Self Prophecy

As I write this journal of today, I feel a new excitement that grips me. There is  a warmth and thrill of facing the coming new year. Intentions are powerful as they convey the meaning of our purpose. Here are the things I am eager about.

On January of 2018,

I see myself a better brother to Jerry.
I am going to love my sister a little bit more.
I am going to love friends differently.

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