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Courage to be Yourself

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Courage to be Yourself

Going back to this series, One Tree Hill. I guess I am loving the life lessons from it. Watching Episode 1 Season 3, I hear this quote from E. E. Cummins

To be nobody but yourself in a world that is just doing night and day to make you everybody else. It means to fight the hardest battle; which any human being can fight – to never stop fighting.

E.E. Cummins on One Tree Hill, Season 2 Episode 3


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Loved You for a Thousand Years

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How we can Turn Back Time and Aging

Eternal Introduction

I was a mortal. You were a God.
But you have loved me from everlasting to everlasting.
Before I was born, you knew me.
I was your beloved son. You were the Father.
So you sent Him from the Golden streets of Heaven and came to earth.

You loved me.

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Poem: Mom Has Just Arrived

Archian - Life, Bacolod, Architecture, Finances & DubaiMom has just arrived
June 3, 2012

As years go by
Memories fade
Keeping the pain inside
Until its too late

Denial, denial.
I have to live so far away
Live in the happy days
Dream away the pain Continue reading

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Last Greetings of an Architect

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Last Greetings of an Architect
by Arch Ian Jay Bantilan

First posted on November 24, 2010

Arch Ian Jay

They shuffle their feet,
to make most of their time,
They fill in their sheets
With all possible design. Continue reading